The Principle: After age 18, get to know people in groups. Pairing up/dating exclusively is a courting and pre-marriage activity, not a get-to-know activity. If the end point is not marriage, don't pair up. Stay in groups.
Finally! Speak the male language. What you need to tell him in order to get exactly what you need.
I did what I hate doing, but is now required. I googled him. All his accomplishments, job, organizations appeared. Nothing new except...I couldn’t breathe then, and can’t breathe now as I share this.
Let's make progress through this article and admit that both men and women are right. All women are crazy. All men are incorrigible. The goal is to find that one who complements your contribution to the world.