The prerequisite to wisdom is lacking for many due to their attempts to be perceived as competent and bolstered by their fear of failure. In order to impact your perception, you must be willing to look stupid.
Magnify trust unless you are given the nudge from the Universe not to. These feelings will work "with you" not "for you."
Parenting is not subtracting. It's adding counterpoint for critical thought, choice, and responsibility.
Trust is discerning who challenges, invests, and communicates with you on a level that motivates you to be better and do better. It is not resting. It is risking.