Realize that support is not just for the hurting. Discern and associate yourself with people who have integrity. Cultivate multiple mentors. Engage your mentors in interaction, which they are used to, rather than attempting to train them as mentors.
See, the tinkling cymbal would rather save face than gain grace. It doesn't understand that showing that you're strong doesn't require bellowing out in the market place all day long.
Love! It's not a one way street. We shouldn't have to hold our needs and wants inside.
Trust is discerning who challenges, invests, and communicates with you on a level that motivates you to be better and do better. It is not resting. It is risking.