Realize that support is not just for the hurting. Discern and associate yourself with people who have integrity. Cultivate multiple mentors. Engage your mentors in interaction, which they are used to, rather than attempting to train them as mentors.
I was not aware of the bees. They stung. They became my enemy. Dealing with the yellow jackets became the perfect health relationship metaphor. Don’t threaten your health unaware of its importance like my encounters with the yellow jackets.